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Well... while I& #39;m complaining and being a bitch on the TL I& #39;ll say this.
IF YOU DON& #39;T UNDERSTAND THE BASIC RULES AND PRACTICES OF BDSM DON& #39;T FUCKING WRITE IT!
Some people don& #39;t do any research and it shows. I have seen so much abuse hidden behind the excuse of D/s +
IF YOU DON& #39;T UNDERSTAND THE BASIC RULES AND PRACTICES OF BDSM DON& #39;T FUCKING WRITE IT!
Some people don& #39;t do any research and it shows. I have seen so much abuse hidden behind the excuse of D/s +
relationships and I can& #39;t even tell you how inaccurate that is.
The ONE THING that is always TANTAMOUNT in any power-dynamic based relationship is PRIOR CONSENT and strict adherence to the rules that were set up BEFOREHAND.
I once saw a fic where JM was denied aftercare bc +
The ONE THING that is always TANTAMOUNT in any power-dynamic based relationship is PRIOR CONSENT and strict adherence to the rules that were set up BEFOREHAND.
I once saw a fic where JM was denied aftercare bc +
he used his safeword and was told he had to "earn it" which is the most disgusting and abusive thing I& #39;ve ever seen.
AFTERCARE IS NOT OPTIONAL! YOU DO NOT "EARN" AFTERCARE. THAT IS SOMETHING YOU ARE PROVIDED NO MATTER WHAT.
There seems to be a misconception that a Dom wants +
AFTERCARE IS NOT OPTIONAL! YOU DO NOT "EARN" AFTERCARE. THAT IS SOMETHING YOU ARE PROVIDED NO MATTER WHAT.
There seems to be a misconception that a Dom wants +
to hurt their Sub partner, which is the farthest thing from accurate that could be said.
In a proper D/s dynamic, NO ONE ON EARTH cares more about that Submissive than their Dominant. Period. Ever.
The wellbeing and experience of the Submissive partner are that +
In a proper D/s dynamic, NO ONE ON EARTH cares more about that Submissive than their Dominant. Period. Ever.
The wellbeing and experience of the Submissive partner are that +
Dom& #39;s WHOLE WORLD in those times. And there should never be a time when they are causing pain just for the sake of pain. It should always be because it& #39;s what their Sub needs and wants.
The Dominant is never truly the one in charge and so many people fail to see that. +
The Dominant is never truly the one in charge and so many people fail to see that. +
