a red flag imo is when someone is super intent on "proving" someone hates a member, and goes thru entire accounts just to make expose threads on them. it's those ppl making those threads that are often who ur supposed to watch out for if anything, bc that behavior itself is odd https://twitter.com/lenikacruz/status/1299122665815453696

i know army first goes "oh! look at this thread of all these things!! how terrible!!" but they often lack context, are from long ago, etc. etc. and even if they aren't, would a sensible person sit there for hours compiling tweets and screenshots in an obsessive manner like that?