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I wanna tell you something you may not wish to hear, but I feel like I have to tell you this anyway because it’s imperative to your growth and healing as a person.
Even the people that have done you “bad”, deserve to be happy. Even the people that do not behave in a manner that’s conducive to YOUR happiness, deserve to find happiness themselves.
We cannot live our lives with a possessive or entitled mentality. Once you understand that everyone is responsible for doing what’s in their best interest, you will be able to not take a lot of shit personal.
That man that left you because he was no longer in love with you or couldn’t find happiness with you deserves to go find his happiness else where sis. He doesn’t need to end up miserable and alone just because y’all couldn’t be happy together.
That girl that never gave you a shot and had you in the friend-zone deserves to find the man she wants that loves and adores her bro. Just because she doesn’t want YOU doesn’t mean she doesn’t deserve happiness with someone else.
We feel too entitled over other people lives sometimes. And we think that if they won’t find happiness with us that won’t find it with anyone. How selfish must you be to wish unhappiness on someone just because you couldn’t be happy with them?
Everything is not for everybody & everyone is not for everybody. You have to develop the type of character that wishes ppl well long after they’ve left your life. Because they’ll be moved on & happy while you still hoping they received their “karma” when they didn’t even do bad.
Someone cheating on you and lying to you while sleeping with the next person is them doing you bad. They’re fucked up. Someone trying to make a relationship work but accepting they aren’t in love with you and leaving is not them doing you bad. They’re being real with themselves.
Someone asking you to wait for them because they not ready for a relationship then constantly getting into relationships with someone else is them doing you bad. Someone telling you they not interested & you stay their friend hoping one day they will be is you doing yourself bad.
My point is this, sometimes the person didn’t even “do you dirty” sometimes they just hurt your feelings. And that’s ok because sometimes your happiness will hurt the next person’s feelings too. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t still get out there and do what makes you happy 
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