Anyway a backpack I was really excited about just arrived and it’s just so clearly designed for a man because why would a woman want a well made nice looking backpack with excellent organisation. It’s just far too big on my shoulders.

I know it’s not the end of the world but my GOD the search for the right backpack never ends does it. & together with all the other extra admin for a woman who wants to buy ANYTHING practical & non-hideous that actually fits her body just gets a bit fucking much sometimes.

just clarifying that I'm explicitly not looking for a hiking one, so while @OspreyPacks are great, they don't have what I'm looking for :(

Well, after discovering I would need to drive for a two hour round trip to return this fucking backpack, my boyfriend now has a very nice new backpack.

After default-male-earphonegate I am NOT BEST PLEASED