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whats yall venus placements? i wanna know what yall shadow side is like in love.
i'll just put a thread of how i view unbalanced signs in their venus and what i've noticed so yall can refer here. give me a sec.
Venus in Pisces: when unbalanced, they tend to self-sabotage in relationships. indulge in alot of self-blame in regards to the faults. with that they lose themselves in relationships, taking the blame for everything. sometimes pushing them to alcohol and other drug abuse. (1)
when things get really bad for a venus in pisces in a relationship, they'll completely ignore their intuition and rather live in a fantasy of what they want their relationship to be. this also makes them super dependent. (2)
Venus in Aquarius: when unbalanced can have a very triggering and condescending way about things in relationships. often causing them to just up and leave the relationship without warning or cause a scene if they just that mad. they're simply ticking time bombs when unhappy.
Venus in Capricorn: when unbalanced this placement becomes extremely cold and straight up mean to their partners. there is no compassion so they tend to say really fucked up things when they're unhappy in relationships. sometimes even diminishing your partner to nothing but (1)
a business relationship. sometimes even a financial relationship lol. measuring their partners value with monetary things. they start to project extremely high expectations onto their partner when they're unhappy in relationships. (2)
Venus in Sag: when unbalanced can try to overcompensate for the faults in their relationships. they'll start spending more money on you. doing big gestures to overshadow the problems. an attempt to act like things are fine when it isnt. they can also become extremely (1)
patronizing when they are unhappy with their partners. becoming all self-righteous and judgmental. alot of the times pushing their partners away. they'll start little side flirtatious relationships to distract themselves from the problems in the main one. (2)
Venus in Scorpio: when unbalanced, their relationship become like an obsession for them. they become so fixated on who their with that it quickly turns into manipulation and jealousy. most of the time manipulating their partners with sex to get what they want (1)
when unhappy with their partner this placement knows how to really dig deep into their partners psyche and fuck with their head in an awful way. they become extremely destructive in relationships when unbalanced. confusing love with control. (2)
Venus in Libra: when unbalanced they become really superficial in their relationships avoiding any emotional depth. they stop really giving a fuck about the person in the relationship and their feelings and focus more on just being in a relationship. (1)
they become alot more vocal about THEIR needs when they are unhappy with their partners, even about things that partner may not be able to control or traits that make them unique in their personality. (2)
Venus in Virgo: when unbalanced this placements become legit assholes. they are cold, detached, over analytical. nothing is going to be good enough for them when they are unhappy with their partners. they will pick them apart. often times making their partners (1)
really insecure. they obsess over minor details as a defense mechanism. which turns into nagging and in the result, pushes their partner away. (2)
Venus in Leo: when unbalanced, this placement becomes, of course, mad arrogant and conceited. they adopt a "you need me more than i need you" mentality. when unhappy they become extremely melodramatic. arguments turn into them calling their partners out for not (1)
"appreciating" things they do for them or lack of "support". most of these situations being heavily exaggerated and is just an attempt for attention they feel like they havent gotten enough of. (2)
Venus in Cancer: when unbalanced this placement will confuse their emotional insecurities with their intuition. they start becoming really clingy and obsessive in their relationships when they're unhappy. they become really desperate to make things work in a failing (1)
relationship, sometimes taking extreme measures. they'll become emotionally manipulative. searching for sympathy from their partner and if their really desperate will result in emotional blackmail. (2)
Venus in Gemini: i'm a venus in gemini so i'll be saying we lol. but we have a little fantasy of having multiple partners, we wont act on it but we mostly do it out of boredom. when we're unbalanced, we'll make random connections and flirt with people just to fulfill that (1)
fantasy. we're more into the fantasies and the imagery we create in our minds. which makes it hard for our actual partners because they wont be able to compete with that imaginary love life. because of that an unhappy venus gemini can use social media, porn, dating apps (2)
to have these imaginary flings or just to feel some type of passion that we're missing with our partners because we're simply that fucking bored. and we do that in place of cheating. but still get the title of being flighty and disloyal because of it. ONLY when unbalanced. (3)
Venus in Taurus: when unbalanced, stops looking at their partner as a person and more like a trophy. a prized possession. when unhappy in relationships they start to look for validation through others. searching for a certain status in their relationship. this includes (1)
money. they start to search for financial security and start to rely more on their emotional attachment to their security and not the actual relationship. (2)
Venus in Aries: when unbalanced, they're fucking demons. end of thread.
