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Guys here are some tips on how to DM a woman. If you aren't interested feel free to keep scrolling.
Still here? Ok let's go
Still here? Ok let's go
1. Have a good reason to dm someone first. If you're there to flirt... maybe... don't? Unless you've already interacted outside of DMs in a flirtatious manner. Definitely DONT cold flirt.
(If you misread friendliness as flirting that's on you. Not her)
(If you misread friendliness as flirting that's on you. Not her)
2. "Hey" is not an acceptable opener. For the love of cats on the internet. Give us something to interact with and get to the point. Tell us what you want. I.E "I was hoping for some advice, can I have a moment of your time"
3. Give her time to respond. We are all in different timezones with different lives. Allow about 24 hrs before you give up.
4. Notice how I said give up? Yep I mean it. If your DM goes unanswered don't keep trying. Please take the hint and try not to take it personally. It has nothing to do with YOU. You are just a name on the screen. And sometimes we just don't have the energy.
5. Be polite. This doesn't mean you have to strip yourself of personality. But don't be overly familiar. Use their name, not pet names.
6. DONT NOT JOKE ABOUT BEING A CREEPER. Just don't. You are not funny enough to pull it off. Promise.
