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1/15
so this is on the poor relationship input of most Namibian women.
like there is a weekly bashing of Namibian men being subpar lovers and such
but it really is the pot calling the kettle black.
here is a young thread
1/15
so this is on the poor relationship input of most Namibian women.
like there is a weekly bashing of Namibian men being subpar lovers and such
but it really is the pot calling the kettle black.
here is a young thread
2/15
Disclaimers
1. this isn't a Namibian men vs Namibian women thread, so please don't come here on a but men are worse tip...its about u mevrou
2. if this thread doesn't apply to u great, I don't care to hear it though lol. if it does, go introspect
cool let's begin
Disclaimers
1. this isn't a Namibian men vs Namibian women thread, so please don't come here on a but men are worse tip...its about u mevrou
2. if this thread doesn't apply to u great, I don't care to hear it though lol. if it does, go introspect
cool let's begin
3/15 Communication
basic communication is a myth. most of yall believe because you can right paragraphs when you are upset or that because you brought up something that was bothering you that you great communicators which isn't the case AT ALL
basic communication is a myth. most of yall believe because you can right paragraphs when you are upset or that because you brought up something that was bothering you that you great communicators which isn't the case AT ALL
4/15
firstly you are only vocal when you are upset and all other forms of communication don't have this much energy in anything else, expectations, sex, elements you confused about, desires. yall like the "he must know/its obvious" failing to communicate. its not always clear
firstly you are only vocal when you are upset and all other forms of communication don't have this much energy in anything else, expectations, sex, elements you confused about, desires. yall like the "he must know/its obvious" failing to communicate. its not always clear
5/15
secondly when you talking about how upset you are its a bunch of rhetorical questions, what-ifs, passive-aggressive comments and barely a hint of solutions
thirdly you tend to make other conversations about yourself esp in conversations where the person was being vulnerable.
secondly when you talking about how upset you are its a bunch of rhetorical questions, what-ifs, passive-aggressive comments and barely a hint of solutions
thirdly you tend to make other conversations about yourself esp in conversations where the person was being vulnerable.
6/15
this is also the basis of why I believe ya'll aren't great at listening either esp for subtleties, your ability to read the room is also questionable as yall make jokes and at times comments that are awkward and mean spirited. on some mean girls shit. "I was just joking"
this is also the basis of why I believe ya'll aren't great at listening either esp for subtleties, your ability to read the room is also questionable as yall make jokes and at times comments that are awkward and mean spirited. on some mean girls shit. "I was just joking"
7/15 Emotional Intelligence
there was a video yesterday on this lesbian couple, where one of them asked the partner what they need from them emotionally and how it manifests, several of u were like ya, we wont get that from Namibian men, lol but have you done that for a partner?
there was a video yesterday on this lesbian couple, where one of them asked the partner what they need from them emotionally and how it manifests, several of u were like ya, we wont get that from Namibian men, lol but have you done that for a partner?
8/15
a lot of times the emotional maturity you desire you don't display, you haven't asked your partner how you could be there emotionally for them. this probably with your inability to read the room, harsh tone and tongue and views. a lot of you box men not viewing them as them
a lot of times the emotional maturity you desire you don't display, you haven't asked your partner how you could be there emotionally for them. this probably with your inability to read the room, harsh tone and tongue and views. a lot of you box men not viewing them as them
9/15
also, a common tendency to be verbally abusive, to raise your voice and yell and there is also physical abuse here and there where he shouldn't hit you cause he is a man but you can get away with it cause you are a woman, those little slaps and punches and shoving
also, a common tendency to be verbally abusive, to raise your voice and yell and there is also physical abuse here and there where he shouldn't hit you cause he is a man but you can get away with it cause you are a woman, those little slaps and punches and shoving
10/15
there has also been this wave of "I am the gift" "I am the Prize" where women believe them being in the relationship is good enough because they are the prize. i get the mindset but a lot of you don't bring back what you require to be kept. you don't give the same energy
there has also been this wave of "I am the gift" "I am the Prize" where women believe them being in the relationship is good enough because they are the prize. i get the mindset but a lot of you don't bring back what you require to be kept. you don't give the same energy
11/15 Gift
I mentioned this before and I had a jokish tone but yall don't really even attempt to know your partner well enough to gift them and its telling. yall settle into the same token gifts, socks, ties, toiletries, a pocket knife, spray or sex and repeat
I mentioned this before and I had a jokish tone but yall don't really even attempt to know your partner well enough to gift them and its telling. yall settle into the same token gifts, socks, ties, toiletries, a pocket knife, spray or sex and repeat
12/15
you partner has been vocal about his hobbies, interests, desires and has probably expressed to you what they want but Nah, you don't know and don't try. also, sex as a gift is a lazy card do better.
you partner has been vocal about his hobbies, interests, desires and has probably expressed to you what they want but Nah, you don't know and don't try. also, sex as a gift is a lazy card do better.
13/15
a lot of you suck at sex. shoulder riders just shrugging all the time when you are on top but ya man. yall want more in the bedroom but aren't giving more, arent communicating nor vocal about experimenting. just shyness and silence and mediocre things.
a lot of you suck at sex. shoulder riders just shrugging all the time when you are on top but ya man. yall want more in the bedroom but aren't giving more, arent communicating nor vocal about experimenting. just shyness and silence and mediocre things.
14/15
Individualism
some of yall take offence that your partner can exist without you, that they are their own persons with interests and activities outside you. taking offence to this is such an unhealthy tendency. allow room to be. allow room for u to be too
Individualism
some of yall take offence that your partner can exist without you, that they are their own persons with interests and activities outside you. taking offence to this is such an unhealthy tendency. allow room to be. allow room for u to be too
15/15 compliments.
can't flirt to save ur life. the only compliment you know is "handsome" and "ooo Dzaddy" and "can I sit on ur face" yall suck at flirting, probably across the board even. like its bad man. no creativity, no attempts, even when u in a relationship. just niks
can't flirt to save ur life. the only compliment you know is "handsome" and "ooo Dzaddy" and "can I sit on ur face" yall suck at flirting, probably across the board even. like its bad man. no creativity, no attempts, even when u in a relationship. just niks
16/15
but anyways a lot of people need to do better across the board. both men and women. but ya I really felt Namibian women need to reflect that yes Namibian men are terrible at romance but you aren't far behind you'll are almost on par
but anyways a lot of people need to do better across the board. both men and women. but ya I really felt Namibian women need to reflect that yes Namibian men are terrible at romance but you aren't far behind you'll are almost on par
