Socities protect and build, as well as harm and destroy

Statistics of harm and destruction are always going to alarm people until we get to a utopia

A preference of being in a less harmful and destructive society is probably normal and not controversial

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Someone being grateful they are in a less harmful society rather than a more harmful one is so obvious it goes without saying

Problem comes when you DO say it

Its distasteful especially with the GBV element coz from a womans perspective every dude is a potential killer/raper

So from that perspective when you say

"women should be grateful they arent experiencing a higher likelihood of encountering a raper/killer here than they are there"

It comes off threatening given the topic and also callous and unempathetic

I dont think dude was endorsing rape or murder

But he doesnt have his thoughts together to speak intelligently about it, so he& #39;s going to get the smoke

Best case scenario he learns to think before he speaks about such a sensitive issue