Men do not want sex, they NEED sex. Myles Munroe says a man needs sex more than a woman does because "he is progenerator (a seed carrier)". That's why he must not be kept waiting too long. Sex is his primary route to intimacy. If you don't give him sex, he'll seek it elsewhere.

That's why a man is ready to go at sex any time, anywhere. It is in his nature to father generations. He carries with him these generations (sperms) everywhere, every day. It is not easy. Men ought to be congratulated for their resilience & perseverance.

A woman's primary need, on the other hand, is affection. That's why most may not relate. Men wanting sex is not a weakness. He is designed to progenerate. He needs it to function optimally. It is for this reason men do not menstruate or have cycles. He is always ready.

Therefore, women should not withhold sex for an extended period of time as a punishment to their men. It is akin to blocking his nose & mouth. Since sex is his oxygen, he will seek it outside, because a drowning man will clutch at a straw. Then you'll say he cheated.

Give the man GOOD sex, and watch him flourish. He comes home earlier, is more active & more attentive. And when a man is happy, so will his kids & his community. So yes, by all means, LET HIM HIT! It's not a want for us, we need it.