Alright so Tom Fowdy decided to make a thread about him being exposed. I am going public so people can retweet this, please do so!! A lot of people are aware of this situation but because I was private they haven’t heard me explain it. I am also unblocking Tom so he can see this. https://twitter.com/tom_fowdy/status/1298507873526390784

Tom, which “thoughtless” remark you are thinking of here? When you asked me my sexuality? When you told me your “friend” is attracted to me? When you told me that that same “friend” wants to add me to a group chat for nudes?

These were all made after you knew my age.

What is your point here. You never gave me an innocent compliment. You said your “friend” found me attractive and wanted me to be in a NUDES group chat. You don’t just think I have pretty hair, you told me your friend is SEXUALLY attracted to me and wants to see me naked.

I have attached here a screenshot of an “apology” email Tom sent me. Seems to be nice, right? Well, just like this thread, he conveniently leaves out the fact that he asked for my sexuality, told me his friend wants to see my nudes, and creepily offered me a gift.

You may be able to twist you offering me journalistic opportunities as being impressed by me, but all the sexual comments you made have nothing to do with my intelligence. And non non creepy person writes college recommendations or sends birthday gifts to people they don’t know.

I don’t think it’s a mistake that you made sexual comments to me and that you accompanied those with three “nice” gestures. Men do not tell women that people want to see her nudes on accident, Tom.
Also, what kind of dumb argument is it to dismiss someone because of their avatar.

Explain to me the purpose of this. These messages are included in @BigBrother_Bot’s thread, and again, all the sexual comments and two of the “nice” things you offered me were after you had known I was 16.

And great, now you dox me. Did you forget again that I am a minor.

Now, I know that people will use the fact that I accepted his offer and said “nice talking to you” against me. Let me explain some things.

He offered me an opportunity to write for The Chollima Report at the very beginning of our interactions. His comments about my age and “hope I’m not intimidating or creepy as a white man” were weird but not weird enough for me to be fully suspicious.

I was not fully suspicious, so I was like why not just take advantage of this opportunity? And I told him it was nice to talk to him because at that time I thought I wanted to write for him, because it is email protocol to be polite, and because women are conditioned to be nice.

You are not sorry at all, Tom. Repeatedly you have said you will only apologize if the thread exposing you is taken down. It couldn’t be more obvious you only care about your reputation and that you’re showing fake remorse only now that you’ve been exposed.

If I had not exposed you, you would have just continued harassing Asian women like you had been doing for a long time already. After already harassing countless Asian women, now that you’re exposed you’re finally sorry?

Your attempt at explaining your side and your attempt at apologizing to me were also both bullshit as you conveniently left out the worst things you said to me.

I want to finally address some comments from other people that have especially angered me:

1) “These are anti-China agents trying to slander a pro-China journalist”
2) “There isn’t enough evidence, look at both sides!”

One: I am literally a pro-China Chinese communist. Two days ago I was hyperventilating and crying throughout the day thinking about possibly exposing Tom because I literally told myself I couldn’t taint his image as one of the only white journalists with good politics on China.

But you don’t truly care about China if you treat Chinese women like shit, Tom. And for other pro-China people defending him: ask yourself why you’re defending a pro-China white man at the expense of a pro-China Chinese girl.

Two: what other side do you need to hear about clearly grooming and sexualizing behavior. Also, if there really wasn’t enough evidence, Tom would choose to post screenshots that would disprove me, not screenshots @BigBrother_Bot literally posted.

That’s what I have to say now. Maybe I will post something else later. But I want people to also know they cannot accept Tom’s apology for me. I was the one he was a creep with. I do not accept his apology for all the reasons listed in his thread.