tw/ sexual assault
i will NEVER condoned sexual assault or apologists. but, i want some of yall to understand that tagging random people and saying "YOU HAVE 1 HOUR TO UNFOLLOW REDACTED BEFORE I UNFOLLOW YOU". people with hyper fixations, have loved someone for years, or have a +

deep set love for them; does NOT help the situation. i am not speaking for everyone or anyone specific who as adhd, autism, etc. but they MAY take longer than an hour or a day to process that someone they loved and adored for so long has done something bad. even people without +

adhd/autism/etc. like i can register when someone commits sexual assault or defended it. but, from time to time my brain cant comprehend that they did it. (again not saying I would excuse them or say well I love them and they could never). im saying that screaming at someone in +

their mentions during a time like this might make them more anxious or send them into a spiral. people will most likely unfollow and stop supporting. long story short just give people time to grieve and process. plus if you can drop them immediately without processing, im not +

bagging on you. you are very valid but just give people a little time or a reminder of the bad people they might be supporting. hope i worded this properly !!