I& #39;ve been refraining myself from talking about B&E on twitter but apparently it& #39;s getting difficult. So, when this entire thing came out, I was definitely shocked & upset. Some of my friends even asked me where do I stand on this: Nowhere.
As someone who& #39;ve been abused as a child, I was deeply shook to the core about this entire thing. I was deeply infuriated for days and I had zero words to say about it. As a bisexual teenager, I felt my own identity kind of threatened for some time.
But then, I remembered my uncle whose entire life destroyed when he was falsely accused of sexual assault by his colleague (he has been proven innocent w proper evidence). My auntie left him, took the kids w her & today he lives in an old age care house, he refuse to meet anyone
He refuse to meet any friend/family member bc no one believed him when he was asking everyone to believe him. My mum still blame herself everyday for not believing him back then. I& #39;ve only met him once, but that person is empty. It& #39;s like the entire life& #39;s been sucked out of him.
I& #39;m not saying that A is a liar. I would never say that, bc I& #39;m no one to accuse someone w/o knowing the actual facts.
Am I blaming B&E? No. Why? Again bc I& #39;m no one to accuse someone w/o knowing the actual facts.
Everyone has the right to stand with anyone. But instead of hating constantly about someone you deeply dislike, why don& #39;t you support constantly about A? If you wanna support her, then why waste time in filling your tl w the people you& #39;ve "cancelled"?
Cancelling someone means that you don& #39;t even care about their existence. If you don& #39;t care about their existence, then why bother to fill your profile w them? I& #39;ve cancelled Justin B ages ago, do you see me going rogue on him? I just don& #39;t care whatever he& #39;s up to.
Above everything, we were never there to actually witness what happened between those 3 people. When did we became a judge? Why hate on A? Why hate on B&E? Why don& #39;t just live your lives?
Asking anyone about clarifying anything? They don& #39;t owe u anything. You are just a bunch of strangers to them. Attacking them bc they shut off their comments/deactivated? Guess what? It& #39;s their social media. They can whatever tf they want to do w that.
You support A? Good, tweet about her works, projects, edit her, constantly support her. You support B&E? Do the same. But trash talking about someone who u don& #39;t even like is sth I would never understand.
Cyber bullying is a crime. No one can get justice or truth or peace after committing this crime. It& #39;s a loop of abuse, threats and negativity. Don& #39;t be a part of that loop. We were raised better than that. Thank you.
If you don& #39;t agree w this, please just ignore this thread. I& #39;m not gonna reply to your hate bc honestly, I don& #39;t give 2 hoots about who is standing w who. I know my place, I know that I& #39;m not being toxic and I& #39;m at peace.
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