before i start, i am not tweeting this because im being called out, i& #39;ve been working on it since last night and all day today because its the right thing to do, and i wanted to word it the right way. i also haven& #39;t been home much today which is why i& #39;m doing this now.
there& #39;s no excuse for what i did, and i know how horrible it feels to be invalidated or misgendered, so i do understand the effect of my words even though most people may not think i do.
i never intended any harm with what i said, both of the times i misgendered/invalidated kya and kaia were genuine mistakes that i now know and understand and will never make again.
i& #39;ve apologized to both kya and kaia personally, but i know an apology will never be enough, nothing will. theres nothing i can do to make up for this, but i hope this thread helps you guys understand i hate myself for it just as much as you all do.
^ and when i say that i& #39;m not trying to get you to feel bad for me, i really really just want you all to understand that. as someone who is genderfluid, im learning i need to take pronouns way more seriously, because i do understand how it feels.
i am genuinely so sorry. i know you all my not believe that, but i am, and i hope kya and kaia do. it was never my intention to hurt anyone, especially because i know for most people including myself -
twitter is supposed to be a place where you can feel comfortable with your pronouns and sexuality especially if you can& #39;t irl, and i took that away from you. again, i really cant explain how horrible i feel about this