dont be so quick to accept apologies. it takes people time to heal and change. it’s one word to have the intention to be better. it’s another to actually change. and change takes time.
if you had these issues a week ago.. a month ago.. if you had these selfish intentions and self love issues not that long ago.. you likely still have them. and cool a lot of people do. nothing against you, but we can’t reconvene until you’ve changed. come back after you’ve healed
also you can forgive someone without accepting the apology. you can forgive someone without even talking to them.. without reconvening. forgiveness doesn’t always mean “let’s try again.” learn about the lesson and learn to let go.
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