sorry but it would be extremely cool if queers didn't log onto this website and talk about women who fuck men as being tainted by their horrible manness, if anyone thought for a second about what they're saying, politically and personally. people can read it

spent all day worrying that I've been too harsh on this point but actually you know what, no. it isnt feminist, it isnt queer, it is both extremely cruel to individuals and an absolutely useless approach to patriarchy

really hard to articulate how much it hurts to have the increasingly loud insinuation that no one in their right mind would want to become more masculine, more male, come from *inside your own house* stfu

like obviously this isnt All About Me but you know what i am upset and maybe it's good to show that in this instance !!

on a less angry note i dont understand how any value is gleaned from these conversations if we cant draw clear lines between "patriarchy means men are often treated as more romantically valued than women, how do we stop that" and "masculinity is basically a contagion"

there is a fucking world of difference between "im wary of relationships where i think I'll deprioritised in favour of men" and "bi women are too damaged by men to have good relationships with" and yunno ive seen plenty of both on here today