Women who actively participate in the conversation of not wanting daughters because boys are easier are women that I do not want around me.

It all stems from the fear of not being able to control her sexuality. That’s literally it. & it’s disgusting. OR in a lot of black womens cases, they have a strained relationship with their mother who saw them as a challenge or competition.

You have grown black women who sit up here and say that dealing with their daughters attitudes, emotions and feelings make them want to go to jail. How sick is that????? If you’re a shitty parent who can’t meet your child’s emotional needs baby just say that!

A teenage daughter gets pregnant....boom kicked out the house. A teenage son era a woman pregnant and its “oh I’m a grandma!” And in a enabling mothers eyes it’s okay and easier because they aren’t directly dealing with the baby. Their son got someone pregnant which is fine.

Nevermind your son going out, not using safe sex, all the things you would get mad at a daughter would be doing but this is the definition for “easier” for them. Parents think they don’t have to teach boys anything and that’s why it’s “easier”

But here’s the problem, the same things you would deal with with a daughter in her teens. You’ll be dealing with your son who is a grown ass man. The cheating, the being an abuser to his wife, him not actively participating in being a father, him being lost and confused...

him being misguided, him being lazy, him being a failure, him relying on you because why.....you always come through! You’re his mommy! You’ve taught him he doesn’t have to try or do anything. You’ve told him that no matter what, you’d deal with it. & now you’re 60 with a grown

ASS man living at home with you, mooching off of you, or you’re paying for his mistakes. Because you thought boys were easier to raise. I’ve seen this FIRST hand. Women end up raising their grown ass sons because they didn’t wanna do it when they were younger. Sad.