gatekeeping is so exhausting and stupid
like srsly who gives two fucks whether someone has been a fan from the start and remembers everything about every member or not, isn't liking the band the most important
honestly i used to be the person who didn't like other people liking the same idol and shit, mostly bc i was treated the same way before etc but eventually i understood ITÂ MAKESÂ NOÂ DIFFERENCEEEEE
the community i got to know on twitter was always open and helpful and stuff, so it really became clear to me that there is srsly no point i thinking OHÂ IÂ DON'TÂ WANTÂ TOÂ SHAREÂ THISÂ BAND/IDOL/ACTOR/etc, bc tbh i'm much happier talking with people who love shota as much as i do
WHATÂ ISÂ THEÂ POINTÂ OFÂ THISÂ THREADÂ IDKÂ I'MÂ EXHAUSTEDÂ BYÂ GATEKEEPING