Dear men, don't agree to play the role of "bad cop" when you have kids. Don't be the one that scolds/punishes the kids and your wife goes behind to apologize and play "good cop."

Two of you should do the correction and apologizing together. Don't fall for that ancient scam.

Some of our fathers fell for that scam and trust me it ended in tears for them. Mothers will use soft power to nudge them towards being the "correctional officer" of the family.

And then mothers are the food guys. Always apologizing, reconciling, showing all the love. Scam!!

Children remember things. They will always associate you the "correctional officer" with pain and sadness for all the time you scolded and punished them.

And the mother? They will always associate her with love and comfort, the one who spoke softly to them. All na scam!!!

But of course children needs scolding/correction or else they will veer off and pick up self-destructive behaviours. And someone needs to do the correction.

But that someone should not be JUST YOU. Don't be the sacrificial lamb. Your wife must ALWAYS tag along. Team effort

Don't make the mistake your fathers made eh. Be smart about these things. Make dem no dey use us carry handicap.

You'd see a father who hustled through sweat and blood to fend for and love his family being treated as an outcast in old age because of this ancient scam

It is a different ball game if you don't want children or don't want to be close to your children. That's fine.

But if you decide to have children, you must enjoy all the love and affection they have to offer as much as their mum. It starts by avoiding this ancient scam

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