When queer people are like “ew bisexual women date cishet men”, a couple of things ...

First of all: We know. Believe me, we know, and we aren’t thrilled about it either

Second of all: Can you see why, given this biphobic world’s limited options, I might go for the cishet guy who responds to my bisexuality with “[shrugs] okay [has no further questions]” over the queer woman who gets ragingly angry and treats me like a stunted imposter

Obviously I’d rather go out with neither of these people and find a kind caring person who accepts me for who I am, but you kinda have to get to know someone first to know if they are that person.