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Ok, Women Not Understanding My Passion For Cars...*sips tea* ahhhhh good shit...
Lets talk about it -*A Thread* https://twitter.com/Justineestonee/status/1297494828893315072
Lets talk about it -*A Thread* https://twitter.com/Justineestonee/status/1297494828893315072
First off, my passion for cars is deeply routed. It's a topic that I can literally talk for days about. Meanwhile, if it isn't sexual(& I don't mean having sex, simply talking about it), writing, wrestling, NBA, NFL, or World Topics, I don't have much to talk about.
this is something that I am straigh-up about from day one. My sexuality(or abundance thereof)& love of cars are things I will bring up so you are aware of what you are getting into. Yet, it never ceases to amaze me...actually it has... when the girl turns around & says...
'its either me or the car?' Now how did it get to this point? Well for one, cars aren't just a hobby for me, I write car articles & sell cars & I'm about to expand further into the industry soon. So a question about my day will probably lead to a discussion about cars somehow
However, I know myself & I know it's rude & uncaring not to ask the question back. So usually, I'm the first to ask the question. & I will listen to you & repeat what you are saying while working, cause I probably will still be working. I may not be looking at you but I hear you
but they take this lack of eye contact as a sign that I'm ignoring them when I'm not & am actively engaged in our conversation. 'Stop writing about cars & look at me' is gonna be directly tied to why I'm broke & can't treat you, even if I want to. Sorry that I'm working
moreso, this uneasiness about my passion amplifies when I actually get into tuning my car. Unlike most car guys, I have a plan & saved budget when I go into a build. It's no different than a girl who likes DIY home renovation, a hobby that helps me relax. You don't have to...
feel like your competing against my car, my love for it is WAAYY different than my love for you. I actively try to get involved in her hobbies(cause that's healthy). I just wish they wouldn't bash mine. 'it's too expensive' well I could say the same bout them shoes but I won't.
cause that's your passion. I have mine, we in a relationship, why put me down, try to understand me better at least like I do you & w.e your passion is(& I have no problem explaining). Then there's me asking you to read what I wrote(if it's not erotica, its about cars)& give a...
opinion. Usually, I get rudely rejected & I guess my question is if you don't want to, why the attitude in the rejection? I'm only asking cause I value your opinion. & if someone who doesn't get cars understands it then I've written a good article. If you/I succeed, we succeed.
So why the animosity. Finally, we get to a car meet/track day. I put work into the car, fellow car people can understand the dedication & guys & girls will walk up, ask questions, we are very sociable, no hatred all love. I actively try to get the girl engaged here, I'm sure she
maybe bored. But she is usually also the one who opted to come. And the energy she gives off towards guys talking to me is best described as a 'rude shrug' & way to 'smug'(yea lets go w/ that word) when it comes to girls, even though usually said girl is not even looking at me &
is instead staring/touching at
A) Her man/the floor, she's bored too
B) My car, she's a person of culture(please don't touch the turbo though, pls)
C) At my girl, shes a different kind of predator(the one you least expect)
My girl will then complain about the day being wasted
A) Her man/the floor, she's bored too
B) My car, she's a person of culture(please don't touch the turbo though, pls)
C) At my girl, shes a different kind of predator(the one you least expect)
My girl will then complain about the day being wasted
On the way home. Like you opted to come, you didn't have to. The house will stay miserable for the night unless some drama show or her gf calls which she will roast me on call which leads to the following day. The inevitable 'its the car or me' statement
and within this context, I will ALWAYS pick the car. Cause you have not worked with me up till now. And my car will be with me while I go & find a true woman to be with. One that accepts me & my hobbies. See, I was really generic cause this thread has been the general outline for
my last couple of relationships. And at first, I questioned was it me? well apparently no, it's not. I refuse to give up hopes & dreams, income, & passion for a woman who could not see any of that invested in my hobby. & I refuse to leave that for a woman who didn't emotionally
or at least mentally invest or have faith in me. So ill stick with my passion, my drive, my goals, my ambition. And hopefully one day, ill find a single girl like the one at the car meet(cause at meets, they USUALLY are all taken)or even someone willing to understand me or meet
me halfway like I would with them. Car people, guys in particular, can find people to date or be with but keeping them is the issue. But I find that its because we attract the wrong kind of person. This goes for anyone, find someone who is willing to 'find' you.
I know absolutely no one will read this but if you do, thank you for making it to the end & listening to my TED Talk. I hope you take something from it, even its small, & have a beautiful, peaceful, & prosperous day/night ahead of you. Thank You
*sips tea & drops mic*
*sips tea & drops mic*
