this.. inane need to control and have everything in BTS’ career and measure them up to your self appointed standards is extremely disrespectful to them as professional and horribly invasive to them as human beings. this kind of idealogy stems from victimisers, from those who

believe that they can save any one member, and ignoring for now the racial microaggresions in that belief, there’s a basic lack of respect and trust in grown adults who have told you to your face time and time again, EXPLICITLY, to trust them. trust they know what they’re doing,

trust they are in a good place, trust they will speak on things if the need arises. so many people who retweeted and shared and nodded at those victimsation threads full of lies with no sources are the same ones horrified that those beliefs have manifested into real life action;

action that is not only humiliating for the person they claim to love and want to protect but an act of public defamation that could snowball into something much more sinister in the hands of the media.

it’s not just loud and proud solo antis who’ve enabled this behaviour and you know it, for the sake of the artists you love, learn your boundaries as a fan, trust them. otherwise the special relationship we hold so dear is placed in jeopardy