the problem w b*s*xual discourse is that queer sexuality is not purely abt attraction its abt community. no one is accountable to the "straight community" cuz its not a community. queer ppl r accountable to queer community, and if they're not, then they don't have queer community

bi ppl who continually d8 in str8 relationships don't often have this community (some still do which is a privilege). fucking (parasitically) in the queer community while consolidating straight power/privilege/property that allows one to avoid the precarity and violence of that

community, is usually the critique coming from queer community that gets rolled into "biphobia." but really this critique is queer community asking certain ppl how they are accountable to the community and not just who they like to fuck