nonlesbians legitimately believe that being a woman that's not attracted to men isn't important and that lesbians think we're better than them because we dare to be happy about overcoming years of internalized homophobia and comphet. that's why i don't care about ~wlw solidarity~

almost every lesbian knew she liked girls from a young age. while that's scary, especially if you grew up somewhere homophobic, the dreadful part that we spend up until adulthood denying is a lack of attraction to men. it's just as important to shaping our identity, sorry bout it

"you're centering lesbianism around men by saying not liking men is important to lesbianism!" said the bi girl who says dyke, the person trying to add women who are attracted to men to the definition of lesbian, and the man who thinks he's somehow allowed a say in any of this