honestly i have genuine concern for a lot of minors on here on hqtwt (and socmed in general) and how they are being led to think certain things are "normal" when...they really arent. it could very easily lead you to a situation you dont want to be in if you arent careful
doesnt it concern you as a minor that most ppl who are "proship"/"anti anti" are adults who want to lewd characters that are around your own age
and that those ppl are making content that leads YOU to think that thats normal OR that its your fault if you see something you shouldnt? doesnt that sound a bit irresponsible on the adults part?
i get the feeling of wanting to belong and fit in and wanting to seem mature to the adults in fandom but when it comes to nsfw stuff, you are treading dangerous water when minors and adults are in the same space discussing that stuff
adults in fandom NEED to be cognizant of that. if you are gonna talk nsfw...leave it on priv and discuss it among other adults. PLEASE do not be callous and just say "minors dni" or "minors tread carefully".... YOU were a teenager once. they will find a way if you dont prevent it
and this isnt a post implying teenagers cant/shouldnt talk about nsfw stuff. dont twist my words. the same rule applies, adults need to stay out of spaces where teenagers are discussing nsfw stuff AND adults need to make sure teenagers are not in /their/ spaces.
furthermore, this doesnt imply adults (early twenties) and teenagers (16+) cant be friends. they can. but there HAS to be boundaries set and its adults responsibility to know those boundaries and set an example.