straight ppl really do not GET it
how difficult it is to come to terms with your sexuality how difficult it is to open up to ppl about it every fucking person they open up about it with they dont GET IT
they act as if its so easy to someone to come out to them as if its something that can be done with the blink of an eye its so frustrating bc no it is not it is terrifying and anyone who isnt straight should always ONLY come out on their own terms when THEY feel comfortable
ive seen hets say if the person theyre dating is bi they should be aware of that but tbh uh no? u dont? bc if that person is attracted to u whether they are bi or not should not matter the only reason ur saying it is bc had u known b4 u would not have dated em n that is biphobia
for me i feel like i would tell a s.o very early on that i am bi just so if they do have an issue with it theyre out of my life b4 anything gets serious but its not the same for everyone and that should be respected :/
some ppl have very complex rs with their sexualities and take years maybe decades to come to terms with it to such an extent that they are able to come out casually to ppl its not up to u as a straight person to demand that from them
anyways ive seen some irritating straight locals on the tl thinking their biphobic ways of thinking are valid and they are not
