It depends on who the "we" is. Because a lot of you mfers ARE biphobic and that's a fact. In fact this whole tweet sounds like some shit someone from outside the demographic (or who is biphobic) would say. https://twitter.com/AsToldByZaria/status/1298000700102905856

Do we wanna discuss numbers and WHY most bisexual/pansexual women mostly have experience with men or are we allergic to math? I regret following this dizzy biphobic heffa. https://twitter.com/sarah_ogun/status/1297997399806349312?s=19

It's shit like this that I've complained about before but y'all wanted to center cis lesbian pov on non-men bisexual folks as if we need their validation, and we don't. But this is shit bisexual folks encounter all the time from monosexual people.

The language ("prefer") is fucked anyway because as soon as a bisexual woman "admits" to being bisexual we are met whorephobia, misogyny, biphobia, transphobia, and abuse/violence. It's assumed that all bisexuals prefer men, no matter our gender.

Most of y'all don't know anything about bisexuality, we don't even get much funding, visibility, or support, especially if we're black, so stop speaking on us through your hurt feelings. We don't need validation from non-bisexuals. Don't date us if you're that pressed.

Hypervisibility isn't support btw. Most cis bisexual women in media are "feminine" and engineered for the cis male gaze (and hypersexual). Most cis bisexual men are invalidated as gay (and hypersexual). If you're trans AND bisexual? Forget about adequate media representation.

And yes, we can talk all day about women who center men and masculinity: studs who are hypermasculine, women/non-men who date, love, and fuck women but follow cis-heteronormative gender roles, etc. Bisexuals are a vast & varied group even when excluding men.

This is dishonest because that's not what was happening in @/sarahogun's thread. The question of validity was placed right in the first tweet, and now y'all are tryna soon it but she said what she said and then immediately doubled down. Stop weaponizing your bisexual identity.

Also: bisexuals do not have to disclose their sexuality or preferences to you. If they're dating you, then they're obviously attracted to you. If the person you're dating is consistently bringing up men, either communicate that is a problem or dump them.

We can discuss compulsory heterosexuality all day but you're not gonna tell me that that's all that was going on in that thread. Replace bisexual with nonbinary in this tweet and see how that works for you.