the idea of being in a “Twin Flame” connection is so romanticized by people who aren’t actually in one. it gets dark. its long. its exhausting. it’ll drag you down to the depths of your own subconscious and force you to face YOU. the goal is never to be in “union” with your twin-

—the goal is to heal your own wounds and be in alignment with YOURSELF. by doing this you illuminate the same wounds your twin needs to heal too. its really about enlightening each other and pushing them to their soul’s mission. not everyone comes into this perfect harmonious—

—idea you guys have of “union”. the true union is the clearing out and balancing of energies within you. if you end up with your twin, thats just the extra bonus of completing the journey. but that’s never the ultimate divine reasoning behind the journey. open your eyes.

Let me go ahead and say something for anyone who is confused about the journey. Twins will NOT purposely hurt you. They are *NOT* toxic. it is not a “traumatizing” experience. it’s very eye-opening and there is a lot of beauty that comes with it. if someone is being abusive—

—toward you, that is not your twin. Most people do not meet theirs. Please use discernment

One more thing. i don’t know how to tell other people about what they should be experiencing in their supposed Twin Flame connection. i only know what goes on in mine, therefore i don’t feel 100% comfortable speaking for other connections and what they “should” look like. maybe—

—one day but i’m not quite that advanced yet. I will say if you have doubts if someone is your TF, Spirit will SHOW you until you are forced to believe it. there will be no doubt. If it would help anyone, and you guys are interested in me sharing my own insights and notions—

—about the journey, i can do that but there are some things that truly can’t be explained in full extent, they can only be experienced.