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TRA's are out there calling people Nazis and rape apologists for... calling trans extremists out for using manipulation tactics my (diagnosed) narcissistic abuser used on me.
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But what are signs that you are abused or are (trying) to discuss a topic with a narcissistic person?
The most important thing to understand is that it starts slowly and subtly.
They like to use 'negative humor' by making critical remarks disguised as sarkasm or humor.
The most important thing to understand is that it starts slowly and subtly.
They like to use 'negative humor' by making critical remarks disguised as sarkasm or humor.
They exploit someone's good will, guilty conscience, protective and nurturing instinct in order to benefit personally by over representing their victimhood
They will constantly ridicule, marginalize and dismiss you to make you feel inferior, not enough
They will play dumb to get away with behaviors or things and critique others for things they do themselves aswell
They will passive aggressively remind others of something bad they did in order to make you want to make up for it. They won't let go of it and will keep using this against you until the relationship ends
They will use denial, lying, misinformation and contradiction to make you doubt your sanity, memory and perception.
They will use excessive hand gestures, raise their voice, use physical abuse and threats to get whatever they want. They throw a tantrum to seem intimidating and induce fear in the other person.
They also use alot of stone walling which consists of
*The refusal to negotiate a conflict in good faith
*refusal to discuss honestly one's motivations
*refusing to listen to another point of view with openness
*refusal to compromise
*refusal to collaborate
*The refusal to negotiate a conflict in good faith
*refusal to discuss honestly one's motivations
*refusing to listen to another point of view with openness
*refusal to compromise
*refusal to collaborate
Honestly, spotting has lighting or other similar techniques used on you by a narcissist is extremely hard to spot, especially for the manipulated person.
I have quite some practical knowledge with this topic and if anyone who's reading this thread is unsure, can comment or DM me
I have quite some practical knowledge with this topic and if anyone who's reading this thread is unsure, can comment or DM me
