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1/ Great q 
The best piece of advice I ever got before going on stage was:
âRemember YOU are deciding if the audience is worthy and smart enough for youânot the other way around.â
It changes the power dynamic entirely.
It changes the sense of confidence and peace you bring. https://twitter.com/pheenixdreamer/status/1297704166551359488
The best piece of advice I ever got before going on stage was:
âRemember YOU are deciding if the audience is worthy and smart enough for youânot the other way around.â
It changes the power dynamic entirely.
It changes the sense of confidence and peace you bring. https://twitter.com/pheenixdreamer/status/1297704166551359488
2/ The most sensitive people are the ones often asking themselves these questions:
âWill I ever be ok? Will I ever be healed? Will my baggage ever be acceptable to someone else and not cause them to run away fleeing, even if it is done kindly, which somehow can feel even worse?â
âWill I ever be ok? Will I ever be healed? Will my baggage ever be acceptable to someone else and not cause them to run away fleeing, even if it is done kindly, which somehow can feel even worse?â
3/ But just by virtue of asking that question, having that concern that youâre the one causing something not to last belies the fact of how very special you are.
*You* are anticipating/fearing how your emotions/hurt might rattle up against and aggrieve other peopleâs boundaries.
*You* are anticipating/fearing how your emotions/hurt might rattle up against and aggrieve other peopleâs boundaries.
4/ Youâve answered your own question in a way. You know you have a tremendous capacity to care and feel and love but you are also human (like we all are) and concerned about how your emotional needs might read like emotional demands. You have greater self-intuition than you know.
5/ The only way out is through. The only way to keep getting better and to fully believe that Jedi mind trick of reimagining the audience/partner is something where you bring the power is to actually attain the power. Learn to be.
Love and forgive the parts of you that you fear.
Love and forgive the parts of you that you fear.
6/ It can suck a lot sometimes when youâre going through it but when you see that you donât die after making a little bit of peace with some past trauma, it changes everything. You change. You stop leaking energy and feeling so splintered and can re-integrate your power into you.
7/ You start asking different questions. Itâs less about am I un-anything, more about why did I ever underestimate myself this way in the 1st place, what caused me to do so, how can I learn to take care of these aching parts that need mending (incl need to take on all the blame).
New Age woo, this is science based.
which clarified for me why emotional agony is so intense. I find fellow 
