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I once had a guy friend who turned “bi” in college (yet got mad at me for not wanting to date him¿)
Growing up, his mother and sister teased him about being gay when he was little because he wanted his hair combed a certain way and never played in the mud/dirt ....
Growing up, his mother and sister teased him about being gay when he was little because he wanted his hair combed a certain way and never played in the mud/dirt ....
The kids in high school, all teased him for thinking he was gay.
Which is ironic because as soon as we graduated everyone flipped a switch and praised every gay person/lgbtqabcdelmnop+ Anyway, during college the guy opened up to me about being bi and his first two times with
Which is ironic because as soon as we graduated everyone flipped a switch and praised every gay person/lgbtqabcdelmnop+ Anyway, during college the guy opened up to me about being bi and his first two times with
guys sexually. I accepted him of course as that did not change my thoughts on how he was as a person and being my friend.
There were times where he would “flirt” with me but I saw it as joking because like everyone else, we all thought/knew he was gay.
It got weird when
There were times where he would “flirt” with me but I saw it as joking because like everyone else, we all thought/knew he was gay.
It got weird when
about a year after he came out to me as being “bi” his mom’s girlfriend (yes) made a joke claiming “Aww y’all would look so good together” & he took it seriously
The next day he told me “come on you act like it would be so terrible to date me”
Putting me in a more than awkward
The next day he told me “come on you act like it would be so terrible to date me”
Putting me in a more than awkward
position.. I had to calmly and sincerely tell him he was like a brother-friend to me (which he was) and it would be weird to date someone who is like family.
He didn’t talk to me for a couple weeks after that.
He didn’t talk to me for a couple weeks after that.
I also could not mention the other reasons on why I would not ever date him.
Not only did I see him as a brother-friend, Me being a straight woman, I don’t believe in “bisexual” and never have.
All of the women I’ve seen turn “bisexual” was because they just broke up with
Not only did I see him as a brother-friend, Me being a straight woman, I don’t believe in “bisexual” and never have.
All of the women I’ve seen turn “bisexual” was because they just broke up with
their boyfriend and/or continuously rejected by guys. Hell I know I use to joke saying “omg I wish I was a lesbian guys are dumb” blah.
All of the males I’ve seen turn “bisexual” had some childhood trauma leading up to it. I figure since everyone called him gay growing up,
All of the males I’ve seen turn “bisexual” had some childhood trauma leading up to it. I figure since everyone called him gay growing up,
he simply became just that. It was programming 101.
Anyway the point of this thread was to explain more on how I feel about fake bi people and proves I would never want to be with nor especially not RAPE bi/gay men. Disgusting.
It also explains how I was afraid to be called a
Anyway the point of this thread was to explain more on how I feel about fake bi people and proves I would never want to be with nor especially not RAPE bi/gay men. Disgusting.
It also explains how I was afraid to be called a
homophobe for not wanting to date “bi” /gay men. Especially a couple years ago when I didnt know a single person who if I said those things to, they would label me as such.
Now I couldn’t give two fucks and probably becoming homophobic as I constantly get reminded on how they
Now I couldn’t give two fucks and probably becoming homophobic as I constantly get reminded on how they
treat me for telling the truth.
