Supposed to be meeting a man for a date this Friday.

He told me my photos are stunning for a phone.
I said it was a backhanded compliment

He denied he'd said phone so we are now not meeting

He's followed me for years on social media
Loves how I am
Except when I challenge him

I wonder why men who follow me on social media don't seem to have any idea of what I am like.

I'm not stupid
Don't bullshit me
Don't gaslight me

Why do they see open & honest communication as poor communication?

If I don't like what is being said, I will challenge it

Already getting explained how the conversation went from his point of view without hearing what I have actually said

He denied using the word phone
He then didn't want to talk because I said he had used the word phone

Defend all you like.

I see you not listening either