I& #39;m so impressed by people who can ask for stuff in general, but especially material things like?? I always hear stories of girls getting their boyfriends to buy them a $400 purse or $250 boots and everyone seems to find this normal... What in tarnation.....

It took me 4 years of living together and 9 years of dating to get fully comfortable asking my wife to buy me a €1 baguette on her way home, with our shared money, and yall out there asking your partners for $100 bracelets... Incredible

Like do I WANT things, absolutely Im just a human raccoon like yall, but I will literally not tell anyone unless explicitly asked . And boy if my pick has consequences on others (like picking food, an outing) I Will deflect bc people will secretly hate me for Having Wants & Needs