ABUNDANCE MINDSET

It's important to operate any relationship from this frame-set. Neediness or scarcity is not pleasant. When asking for a pay rise, you want to operate from an abundance mindset. When dealing with the opposite sex, has to be from an abundance mindset.

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Whether u're dating casually or with one person. Operating from abundance makes you valuable. Instead of dating multiple women, u can focus all ur energy on chasing ur purpose. When ur a busy man, u don't have time to always be available to ur significant other. FOCUS on purpose

U don't want to always be available, always be in ur woman's face. She will eventually resent if ur too available. You will even end up pedastilizing her & catching feelings. Don't always be too available, she will hate. It's happened to me.

Women's attraction grows when she away from you, her craving you makes her want you more. Men catch feelings by spending time with their woman. You want to avoid always being available so her attraction grows for you. Doesn't mean sit around and calculate when and when not to...

..communicate. Find your purpose, chase excellence. You will automatically be busy and not too available.
Create a 2nd, 3rd, 4th stream of income. Be busy on your grind.
Indoda mayibe ne plan'e, you have to make things happen. She will look upto you, she wants a go getter.

The more you pull away, the stronger the gravitational pull. Don't over do it though.
Always be ready to NEXT her if she decides to leave. Your purpose will never leave you. Women come and go. Your grind will pay for those international trips, luxuries and so on.