I also realise my earth Venus is a big reason why I feel underwhelmed in friendships/relationships. Having a fix it and analytical/critical mindset towards those I love, allows me to constantly commit acts of service/words of affirmation because I will do things to uplift, change

their lives and at times I’ll even criticise to show where they may perhaps be falling short but also give alternative methods and even be willing to plan out exactly how they can improve. But no one does the same for me lol. I actually handle everything alone and not by choice.

I’d love some help! No one offers. I’d love some support. No one offers. I’d love people to be overthink how I like to be loved and analyse my behaviour to give me a tailor made version of love for me the way I analyse and do for them. No one does it. I just feel like I pour way

More in things than the other way around. I’m the type of partner that is about totally transforming you financially, in your status, in the way you carry yourself and in your outlook in life but I find when I meet people, yes they teach me things but I don’t think they “upgrade

me” and I wanna be upgraded!