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CW: grooming
I was groomed online, and ended up in a 'relationship ' with a man over 10 years my senior at the time.
I did not deserve it, and he was completely wrong
but im so sick of the narrative that teenagers don't know better.
as soon as we got a family computer--
I was groomed online, and ended up in a 'relationship ' with a man over 10 years my senior at the time.
I did not deserve it, and he was completely wrong
but im so sick of the narrative that teenagers don't know better.
as soon as we got a family computer--
I was being told how to use it and be safe. I was warned what sites not to go to. what things not to look at. and i was monitored as well
and i still, as a 12-16 year old, found ways around the monitors and put myself in spaces i knew better than to be in.--
and i still, as a 12-16 year old, found ways around the monitors and put myself in spaces i knew better than to be in.--
Like Simba and Nala going to the shadow lands to prove they were mature, i lied about my age to get on sites and do things I knew I shouldn't have been doing.
and i took enormous, as a kid, to ensure my parents never found out.
bc i KNEW BETTER.
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and i took enormous, as a kid, to ensure my parents never found out.
bc i KNEW BETTER.
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I put myself in his sight. what he did to me was wrong
but had I not been in an AIM thing for members of adult fanfiction dot net at the age of 15
id never crossed his sight at all.
but had I not been in an AIM thing for members of adult fanfiction dot net at the age of 15
id never crossed his sight at all.
we are treating teens and minors now like they're uwu babies who need to be mollycoddled
as if in one breath these kids don't also ignore tags and warnings and insert themselves into adult spaces
they grew up hearing about internet safety way more than my age group did--
as if in one breath these kids don't also ignore tags and warnings and insert themselves into adult spaces
they grew up hearing about internet safety way more than my age group did--
and yet, they demand to be allowed in 18 plus spaces. they lie their way in
and then demand the content cater to them.
while sexualizing themselves and swearing theyre mature enough.
beloved, you aren't mature. you're neglected. you aren't mature, you're traumatized.
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and then demand the content cater to them.
while sexualizing themselves and swearing theyre mature enough.
beloved, you aren't mature. you're neglected. you aren't mature, you're traumatized.
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what happened to me makes me furious when I think about it.
and he will have always been the adult who never should have engaged with a child.
but im not going to act like he found me off the streets, rather than me being somewhat I wasn't supposed to be--
and he will have always been the adult who never should have engaged with a child.
but im not going to act like he found me off the streets, rather than me being somewhat I wasn't supposed to be--
but now, these kids will dress up as panty, or do a challenge where they pretend to spit rather than swallow
but if something makes them uncomfortable god brace for impact.
but if something makes them uncomfortable god brace for impact.
so which is it. are yall mature enough that sexualizing yourself is okay
or are you so uwu smol baby bean that you faint seeing two boys kiss?
teenagers have processing skills. stop coddling them and acting like they don't know what they're doing..
if what you did is so bad--
or are you so uwu smol baby bean that you faint seeing two boys kiss?
teenagers have processing skills. stop coddling them and acting like they don't know what they're doing..
if what you did is so bad--
that you have to hide your stuff and lie about what you're doing when your folks walk --
in, then you just made my point.
you hide what you're sneakily doing. teens are old enough to understand consequences, and you dont hide shit you're not ashamed or guilty of.
kids do not deserve to be preyed on
however if kids did not go too sites even Google warned you
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you hide what you're sneakily doing. teens are old enough to understand consequences, and you dont hide shit you're not ashamed or guilty of.
kids do not deserve to be preyed on
however if kids did not go too sites even Google warned you
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then they're opening the gate for worms and shit wondering why.
your safety starts with YOU.
your safety starts with YOU.
I'll never say a kid deserves an adult preying on them
kids don't deserve to be preyed on. but the reason I get so violently angry about this is bc they do know better.
stop acting like a 15 year old has the mental abilities of a 5 year old. at age 15 they're learning to drive-
kids don't deserve to be preyed on. but the reason I get so violently angry about this is bc they do know better.
stop acting like a 15 year old has the mental abilities of a 5 year old. at age 15 they're learning to drive-
cars are weapons. giant weapons that can kill and at age 15 we start seriously teaching kids to use them
but Becky can't understand what
means?
don't put yourself in dangerous situations, children, and you'll be less likely to fall into danger.
but Becky can't understand what
means? don't put yourself in dangerous situations, children, and you'll be less likely to fall into danger.
