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Kyle Sloan was very emotionally and mentally abusive both during and after our relationship. My experience with him was full of lies and gaslighting.
While we were together, it seemed like he had a lot of animosity toward me, because he was very distant with me. It was like he didn’t want people to know that we were together.
He would refuse to go on dates with me, delete pictures of me off his phone, and kept me from meeting his family. Obviously in hindsight it’s very obvious that this relationship was one sided, and I had no idea what his intentions were with me.
After a few months he broke up with me, telling me that he still had feelings for me and that if I had any questions I could talk to him and he would tell the truth. This was a lie.
This happened on a Friday. By Monday there were multiple people telling me that he was already with another girl, and that he had cheated on me. I still trusted him at that time, so I decided to reach out to him and talk about what I had been hearing.
What followed were multiple failed attempts to speak about the cheating and all the rumors. My goal was to speak to him in person so that we could still be on good terms, but in hindsight I can see how he and his friends wanted to drag everything along.
He would usually tell me over the phone or in a text that he didn’t cheat on me, but it was always in a confrontational way, which is literally the OPPOSITE of what I wanted. I would retaliate by telling him that our misunderstandings were a result of him continually avoiding me.
These are a few of the messages where I tell him what people are seeing and saying, along with me telling him that talking in person would’ve been the best option for us.
He would constantly confront me about tweets that I would make (that account is suspended now) about our situation, which would bring us right back to not meeting in person. One day he finally agreed to meet with me to have a conversation about everything. That didn’t end well.
It’s a long story, but basically while I was waiting for him to meet up with me he walked towards me with the alleged “other girl,” made eye contact with me, then put his arm around her and kept walking past me.
After my friends saw me crying, they decided to walk me to class.....as we were all walking, he and the other girl came towards us, he made eye contact with me again, and they put their arms around each other and walked BETWEEN me and my friend.
At that point I gave up on trying to speak with him in person.
After this, it was a constant back and forth over the phone where he or his friends would do things to me during school, and whenever I confronted him he would tell me that it was either my imagination or that it didn’t happen “the way I thought it did.”
Those conversations usually ended with me apologizing to HIM for things that he or his friends had done, and I began to believe that I was going crazy and overreacting about everything. I became really depressed and disoriented because he had me doubting my own experiences.
As I said earlier, there was a lot of lying involved in our relationship. I’ve found out that he has a habit of lying to me, but telling everybody else the truth. He would continually tell me that he had feelings for me (obviously I doubted it due to his actions).
But while he would tell me that, he would tell anybody else who asked that he either “didn’t have feelings for me” or that he “didn’t know how he felt about me” here are a few of the things he said below:
I was obviously forced to keep these screenshots and conversations because I was being gaslighted by him all the time. The last time that I really spoke out against his abuse (before my last account), his friends attacked me. Due to recent events I’m not scared to show names.
His friends have called me psycho, bitter, crazy, and have said that I’m lying about everything and just want attention. I want everybody to know that I have literally NOTHING to lie about, and that is exactly why I specified what type of abuse I suffered from. Purely emotional.
A lot of people have turned on me due to him befriending people in my circle and convincing them that he did nothing wrong. To this day he refuses to acknowledge anything that he has done, which is why he went private after I made my last thread about his abuse.
Along with allowing his friends to speak about me, he also allowed his brother to threaten my friend for speaking out about how he abused me.
This experience has really affected me, as it contributes to my severe anxiety, depression, and has caused me to be really insecure about myself. He made me feel as if I wasn’t worthy to be treated with human decency, and his friends have followed suit.
Although he will continue to lie and say that he did nothing to me, I want you all to know that my story is valid. All of the disrespect I had to go through is real. I have nothing to lie about when it comes to what happened between me and him.
To this day I get flashbacks almost every night about everything that has happened to me. How anybody could feel no remorse or be proud of themselves for doing this to somebody is beyond me. How people are able to justify all of this and attack me for it is beyond me as well.
