Stop calling people & #39;misandrist& #39; when they say "Men are trash".
First of all, we KNOW that good men exist, & #39;surprisingly& #39; we know that. Using a simple snake metaphor by Jesse Vhasy, "We all know that snakes are dangerous, yet there are some snakes which are not deadly. (1/n)
First of all, we KNOW that good men exist, & #39;surprisingly& #39; we know that. Using a simple snake metaphor by Jesse Vhasy, "We all know that snakes are dangerous, yet there are some snakes which are not deadly. (1/n)
However, you never hear people say âsome snakes are dangerous, some are notâ. They just say, âsnakes are dangerousâ because it is hard for the person to tell which snakes are dangerous and which snakes are not, so they urge people to be cautious of all snakes." (2/n)
"Men Are Trash" is like saying "Fruits are sweet." Not all fruits are sweet but we don& #39;t say "fruits are sweet but some fruits are sour", it& #39;s simple linguistic understanding. Itâs common sense-we say it because there are more than enough men to make us feel afraid(3/n)
to walk at night, more than enough men to make us think thrice before trusting men because weâre afraid they will hurt us, we have to be alert all the time. Every women I know has gone through it. We donât have to explain that we donât actually mean& #39;all& #39; men. By being defensive
when someone speaks about their bad experiences, you are becoming part of the problem, you donât care about what happened to them, youâre worried about only you and your bros.âWeâre good guys, stop generalizing us& #39;& #39;. Yet women can be attacked a majority of men and you wonât care.
Men who aren& #39;t trash don& #39;t get triggered by & #39;men are trash& #39; because they know they aren& #39;t one of them.They won& #39;t feel the need to defend themselves, they arenât ignoring womenâs struggles. They donât have fragile egos that crumble instantly when a woman says, âmen are trash.â(6/n
If you try to get defensive then it& #39;s because you are problematic and are a part of the problem, you know it and you feel attacked. In that case you should introspect. (n/n)