Honesty time!

I& #39;ve had some bookings where I& #39;ve climaxed prematurely or been unable to maintain an erection.

It has never (to my knowledge) presented a significant road block because intimacy is far more complex than P in V sex.

Male sex workers, just like all sex workers, are not automaton sex bots. We are human beings with physical bodies that are fallible.

Men have a somewhat unique problem where perception of our arousal is based almost entirely on a physical reaction - which is impossible to fake.

My fear when this happens isn& #39;t my own embarrassment, it& #39;s the feeling it may give to my clients who could feel as if it& #39;s THEIR problem - as if they& #39;re not attractive or sensual enough to warrant an erection.

This isn& #39;t true at all. Sometimes our bodies just don& #39;t behave.

When this happens it& #39;s not anybody& #39;s fault - it& #39;s just a quirk of biology in that distinct moment.

Sex is more than penetration. It& #39;s touch. It& #39;s talk. It& #39;s closeness. It& #39;s fantasy. It& #39;s kissing.

I& #39;m not ashamed to admit these things because I am - as we all are - human.

Addendum:

I often have viagra on hand. I use it when I feel I can predict a potential issue happening - but the side affects of viagra are significantly unpleasant, as anybody who has taken it can attest.

Oh final note - I should have said SW with penises, obviously it does not just affect men.