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You know one of the things I said I& #39;ll make sure that I tell my kids is "I& #39;m always there for you" and they know that and don& #39;t feel the need to maybe go looking for support or comfort anywhere else apart from the people in their house...
When they have an issue/ problem or going through a bad time I want them to be able to think about me first/come to me & know mum can help in some sort of way, be confident in feeling that. To the point where they don& #39;t need to turn to anyone, including their friends...
But instead ME be that friend that they turn to with the respect still there. I want the concept of family to be so so strong that even when misunderstandings come they know it& #39;s all going to be okay and NOTHING gets in the way of our family...
or they have no bad thoughts or feelings to the point they feel distant maybe, but in fact it strengthens the family through time. I also very much dislike this whole you only like your dads side or mums side. It creates drama, it& #39;s unhealthy and your should never let your...
pride be that high that you as a parent encourage them to favouritise. I don& #39;t want that for my kids. The more I get older I realise how expressing is so important, and personally I& #39;m one to express but still working on it, cos it depends. But simple things like:
& #39;I& #39;m there for you& #39;
& #39;I love you& #39;
& #39;I missed you& #39;
& #39;How was your day?& #39;
& #39;You okay?& #39;
& #39;Everything& #39;s going to be okay& #39;
& #39;I love you& #39;
& #39;I missed you& #39;
& #39;How was your day?& #39;
& #39;You okay?& #39;
& #39;Everything& #39;s going to be okay& #39;
Even look wise trying my best to make them feel beautiful/handsome as possible inside and outside that they know their worth right from the start and take pride in being themselves.
I want the family to be so strong that even if we became poor or were going through a rough time as a family, they still feel rich at heart and a smile would still spread across their face because they have their family by their side. I want family to be the one thing or place..
where they can gurantee feeling loved because people leave, people lie and people have ill intentions and this world just ain& #39;t it and will get worse with time. So even if they break from what life has to offer them is makes them into a better muslim instead of giving up and...
turning astray despite the hardships as well as strong humans, more stronger than I ever been or will be, that they don& #39;t feel the need to turn to others but family only. And that& #39;s the home I want to create.... that& #39;s on if I even marry a male species tho
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If it& #39;s all in Allahs plan cos his plan is better than ours. Something also I wanna teach them as soon as possible.
