I realize that there are too many people here I know that have struggled with an abusive partner. So, I& #39;m going to start a thread of all the things they say that justify, manipulate and hurt those they claim to care about. I encourage you to add yours, taking control is healing.
"No one else is ever going to put up with your shit like I do."
Favorite this week...
"My words may be shitty, but my actions aren& #39;t."
(FYI....apparently speaking is no longer an action)
And...
"I& #39;m only reacting to you, you know I& #39;m going to and can& #39;t help it."
(This is boys will be boys justification...stop it!)
"My words may be shitty, but my actions aren& #39;t."
(FYI....apparently speaking is no longer an action)
And...
"I& #39;m only reacting to you, you know I& #39;m going to and can& #39;t help it."
(This is boys will be boys justification...stop it!)
"You know exactly what buttons to push, it& #39;s not my fault that I respond to that."
"You do it on purpose."
"You do it on purpose."
"You don& #39;t have a right to feel that way."