i’ve had a lot of girls recently tell me they wish they had the same relationship w guys they’ve slept w as i do with men i’ve been w and i guess i didn’t realise it wasn’t normal for me to genuinely care about all of them and vice versa lol ??????

like it’s made me very grateful that i can continue having genuine non sexual friendships with them after since apparently that’s not the norm for all my friends

grateful i could go to that party last night and just walk into the bedroom and have a cry into the arms of a dude i hooked up with back in february and have him feel comfortable enough to do the same to me later in the night when some heavy shit went down

like we all joke i have a harem of sorts but i think it shocks some of my friends that i’m genuinely close to all of them and that i know i can go to any one of them and any one of them can come to me for support on any topic if need be

idk this thread makes me sound like a pretentious wanker i have just become hyper aware that i’m incredibly blessed and lucky to have had such good long-term experiences with all of my “hook ups” lol