Not to be overly dramatic but recently I& #39;ve learned that a lack of information can hurt more than a possible negative situation, and sometimes it& #39;s better to just. Have that fight than to ghost someone, because you both leave at least with a sense of finality.
I& #39;ve always avoided conflict, especially when I know I& #39;m in the wrong. I jump to the outcome that I see as an inevitable... But taking away that "final dialogue" is a lot more harmful than I initially perceived it to be years ago.