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Not to be overly dramatic but recently I've learned that a lack of information can hurt more than a possible negative situation, and sometimes it's better to just. Have that fight than to ghost someone, because you both leave at least with a sense of finality.
I've always avoided conflict, especially when I know I'm in the wrong. I jump to the outcome that I see as an inevitable... But taking away that "final dialogue" is a lot more harmful than I initially perceived it to be years ago.
I've had people say "I just wanted to say my piece" in regards to so many things and never understood it, and honestly still don't in the sense of my own mental viewpoint, but I'm starting to understand why others do it now. It's a catharsis thing, a "this is the end" thing
That's it that's the end of this thread tho. Just kinda wanted to write down some thoughts... God, should I get like. a legit private twitter for these things? LOL this is an Idol twitter. I can't rly tie this into an idol game tweet, huh...
