maybe it's just me but i just think we shouldn't make up genders anymore bc it makes trans people look like jokes and i am tired of having my identity and my life become something funny to poke at
like yeah neopronouns are great! and i support them! but there comes a time where you have to realise your gender...... isn't a worm and it isn't frozen yogurt and it isn't whatever thing you're interested in at the time those are genders those are just other objects in the world
gender is a spectrum of course and you can fall on either end of the spectrum or even outside of it but it's going to come to the point where someone is going to be transphobic and say "i bet you identify as an attack helicopter" and they're going to be able to defend themselves
and say that they're NOT being transphobic because someone out there does identify as an attack helicopter and if you can't see how that's absolutely problematic to trans people everywhere then idk maybe you're the phobic one here but im not going to just sit by while people mock
my existence thanks rant over