WHY YOU NEED TO STOP TELLING PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR FAMILY TO NOT “be like that”

A FUCKING THREAD BECAUSE IM SO GODDAMN TIRED

1. ABUSE

Blood is thicker than water and that’s truly because they form a lot of who you are. They will be the first to abuse or hurt you in many toxic family dynamics. If it did NOT happen to YOU DIRECTLY in THIS situation it is not your choice to make. No should just take it

No matter who did it. Abuse is abuse is abuse is abuse is abuse. If someone’s been abused their whole life by a partner it’s a problem...a mother it’s “you know but that’s YOUR MOM” they do not act like it?? Why keep that energy?

2. FEAR

For some people choosing to stand in their truth can mean extreme persecution ESP from family. Why shoulD you live in fear of being hurt or WORSE MURDERED? It is not worth it, it is better and safer to be away.

3. UNHEALTHY FAMILY DYNAMICS

If you have experienced these things as a child many may work to heal those things....try to be better, unlearn, have peace...but if you have burns on your hand and keep fucking touching the hot fucking stove....YOU AINT GOING TO FIX THAT SHIT

People deserve and are allowed TO HAVE PEACE and on the road to healing means LETTING GO....YES EVEN FUCKING FAMILY WHAT A CONCEPT