๐Š๐š๐ฌ๐ก๐ฆ๐ข๐ซ๐ข ๐–๐ž๐๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐“๐ซ๐š๐๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ

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#Kashmir is a beautiful location with breath-taking valleys, snow-clad mountains & floral plains itโ€™s known as โ€œParadise on Earthโ€, it's also known for its culture & tradition which can be witnessed at its weddings
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The traditional #Kashmiri wedding is surreal and beautiful as Kashmir itself the elaborate rituals and sacramental commitment make them a regal & unforgettable affair. Here are some unique rituals at the wedding.
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๐Œ๐š๐ง๐ณ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฒ๐จ๐ซ

Traditionally, #Kashmiri elders hire a Manzimyor, a professional matchmaker to help them find suitable matches for the prospective bride or the groom.
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โ€˜๐๐š๐ซ๐œ๐ก๐žฬ ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐š๐ฏ๐ฎ๐งโ€™

'Manzimyor' makes a profile of the girl/guy, and presents their details at a compatible family. He gives the details of the guy/girl to an interested family giving them time to decide.
This process is called โ€˜Parchรฉ traavunโ€™.
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๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ก๐š๐ฒ๐š๐ง

After the official consent for marriage, there is a very lavish ceremony known as Nishayan or engagement. This formal ceremony is usually hosted by the brideโ€™s family. Close family and friends are invited to a very lavish feast called the Wazwan.
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๐’๐š๐š๐ญ๐ง๐š๐š๐ฆ

After the engagement ceremony, there is a get together called the Saatnaam. It takes place at the respective houses of the bride and the groom. The get together is done to officially announce the wedding date. It is celebrated with traditional music & dance.
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๐Œ๐š๐ฅ๐ฆ๐š๐ž๐ง๐ณ

It starts the main celebration of wedding. It is marked by traditional โ€˜Mas Traavunโ€™ (Letting down brideโ€™s hair). The elder women of the family oil the brideโ€™s hair and tie it into various tiny braids (Locally called โ€˜Waankhโ€™) & wrap them in colorful ribbons.
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๐Œ๐š๐ž๐ง๐ณ๐ข๐ซ๐š๐š๐ญ

A pamper session indeed. Amid cheerful family & friends, bride/groom receive all the tender love for the big day. Her hands, arms & feet are adorned with henna (called Malmaenz) and his little finger is adorned with henna, and money is wrapped around.
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๐€๐š๐› ๐’๐ก๐ž๐ก๐ซ๐ฎ๐ง

On the day of the wedding, the Kashmiri bride takes a bath and wears a traditional dress known as the Pheran, Nowadays, she dons it - wearing the headgear over an elaborate bridal saree or bridal lehenga. She prays reciting verses from the holy Quran.
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๐๐ข๐ค๐š๐ก ๐Š๐ก๐ฐ๐š๐š๐ง๐ข

The Nikah for a Kashmiri wedding is actually very modest in nature. The priest recites verses from the Quran and prays that the couple enjoys a long, happy married life.
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๐˜๐ข๐ง๐ข ๐–๐จ๐ฅ

Following the Nikaah ceremony, the baraat including friends, family, relatives, neighbours, and more gather for lunch and bless the couple. The guests are served a traditional feast known as the Kashmiri Wazwan which consists of a variety of delicacies
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๐Œ๐š๐ก๐ซ๐š๐š๐ณ ๐’๐š๐š๐ฅ

In the evening, the groom and the baraatis are given a royal treatment. They are served food in beautifully carved copper plates. The menu is very elaborate & in a way. The groom is made to sit on a platform made of the finest silk carpets.
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๐‘๐ฎ๐ค๐ฌ๐š๐ญ๐ข

After dinner, the bride bids farewell to her family. Ruksati is a very emotional moment for the bride & her family. Her close relatives & friends accompany her who carry her trousseau usually traditional copper items as dry fruit box, quran rehal, & jewellery
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๐Œ๐ฎ๐ก๐š๐ซ ๐“๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ง

The mother of the groom welcomes the bride to their home and lifts her veil so that her face can be seen by everyone. Women sing traditional Kashmiri songs and give her gifts. Sometimes a goat is also slaughtered in the honour of the bride.
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๐–๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ฆ๐š

The next day, the family of the groom holds a feast known as Walima or a reception. Family, friends, and other people from the community are invited to bless the newlywed.
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๐Š๐ก๐š๐›๐ซ๐ข ๐†๐š๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ง

For a few days after the wedding, relatives of the bride except her parents, visit the groomโ€™s house and give gifts to the couple, mostly in the form of cash.
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๐๐ก๐ข๐ซ๐ข ๐’๐š๐š๐ฅ

A few days later, the family of the bride invites the couple and the rest of the family members for a meal at their house. The invitation is known as Phiri Saal. Goes without saying that the guests are treated with the utmost respect and honour
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๐’๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ ๐ƒ๐จ๐ก

The immediate 7 days after the wedding are celebration days. During these days, bride wears seven different colours &does not do any household chores. On the 07th day, the family of the bride is invited for a feast and the bride leaves with her family
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๐๐ก๐ข๐ซ๐ซ๐š๐š ๐Š๐ก๐š๐›๐ž๐ซ

After the bride returns back to her husbandโ€™s house, all the close relatives visit her just to make sure that she is doing well. This ritual is known as Phirraa Khaber.
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The intimate, loving & fun-filled rituals of #Kashmiri wedding are surreal & a true portrayal of the rich culture & traditions of the #Kashmir. Like every other ritual followed in the valley, they display the love and warmth of Kashmiri people & society.

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