Some people will literally try and control you in any way they can to make themselves feel superior and feed their ego. They’re usually massively unhappy in themselves, but this is NO excuse for this behaviour. People like this will like to gaslight you and pretend you are

Making a fuss of nothing. Very narcissistic tendacies, and they will switch up depending on their mood. The best thing you can do is assert your boundaries, distance yourself and remind yourself that it’s not your fault someone is behaving that way.

If you assert yourself and your boundaries or try and voice your hurt, and youre met with that person playing the victim, do not feel guilty or try and comfort this person. They will switch it up and play the victim and make you feel wrong for speaking up for yourself. This is

Not normal or healthy behaviour and if someone’s doing this to you, do not take it personally no matter how hard. You have a right to be upset by this sort of behaviour. You can heal from this and move away from these types of people. Pray for their healing but don’t burden

Yourself with their company if it drains you mentally and even physically.