Me: You moving an hour away... whew
Her: Where do you stay?
Me: *******
Her:
It's still worth it to link up? Lol
Me: I tried to video chat you, you never answered if you wanted
Her: Nah i rather just meet up lol. I can drive to ***. Its not a problem
Her: Where do you stay?
Me: *******
Her:

Me: I tried to video chat you, you never answered if you wanted
Her: Nah i rather just meet up lol. I can drive to ***. Its not a problem
Me: do you have an IG?
Her: naw I’m not big on social media
Me: ok well we should video chat when are you free
Her: sure that’s cool anytime after 1
*1pm arrives*
Me: ok cool you free?
*video call doesn’t connect*
Her: call me on my phone
*Goes to txt and see messages are green*
Her: naw I’m not big on social media
Me: ok well we should video chat when are you free
Her: sure that’s cool anytime after 1
*1pm arrives*
Me: ok cool you free?
*video call doesn’t connect*
Her: call me on my phone
*Goes to txt and see messages are green*
“I know it’s on your profile but Imma ask anyways and you rude for not answering my question even though this was obvious if I took the time to read”
Me: you have an IG?
Her: naw
Me: oh ok we should video chat sometime when youre free
Her: sure
*video chat doesn’t connect multiple times*
Her: so you arent going to message me?
Me: I mean tbh idk cause I’m not sure who you say you are couldn’t video chat and you don’t have an IG
Her: naw
Me: oh ok we should video chat sometime when youre free
Her: sure
*video chat doesn’t connect multiple times*
Her: so you arent going to message me?
Me: I mean tbh idk cause I’m not sure who you say you are couldn’t video chat and you don’t have an IG
Her: “SO YOU THINK IM A CATFISH?! SOCIAL MEDIA ISNT LIFE! I COULD HAVE AN IG AND STILL CATFISH YOU! TECHNOLGY DOESNT ALWAYS WORK THATS THE NATURE OF IT!!”
Me: “any plans for today?”
*shawty disappears from the convo for one week*
Her: “we should grab drinks this weekend or something this”
Me: “I mean true we should video chat when you’re free”
Her: “ok... I guess that’s cool too”
*shawty disappears from the convo for one week*
Her: “we should grab drinks this weekend or something this”
Me: “I mean true we should video chat when you’re free”
Her: “ok... I guess that’s cool too”
Maybe if I lower the minimum age to 23 I’ll have better luck
So my friend suggested I unmatch people when I’m not interested to improved my algorithm instead of just leaving the convo. I listened and gave it a try, why did shawty dm me on IG and write a think piece mind you were didn’t y’all ALL day till then
Me: oh ok when’s the last time you got tested?
Her: Jan
Me:
uh that was a while ago you’re due for a checkup
Her: yeah I don’t have sex with people I’m not in a relationship with so I haven’t gon
Me: that’s not how diseases work they don’t just pause when you not with someone.
Her: Jan
Me:

Her: yeah I don’t have sex with people I’m not in a relationship with so I haven’t gon
Me: that’s not how diseases work they don’t just pause when you not with someone.
Her: well if I’m in a relationship with someone with exchange results and then have sex
Me: oh ok cool
*convo fast forward*
Her: how many people are you talking to?
Me: relax... that’s like me asking how many people you having sex with
Her: ok so answer
Me: YOU answer
Me: oh ok cool
*convo fast forward*
Her: how many people are you talking to?
Me: relax... that’s like me asking how many people you having sex with
Her: ok so answer
Me: YOU answer
Her: 1
Me: you just said you get tested when you’re in a relationship and haven’t been tested since Jan....
Her: I didn’t say it was recent
Me: well you can’t be “having sex with someone” if it’s not recent....
Her: well it what do you consider recent
Me: idk couple weekish
Me: you just said you get tested when you’re in a relationship and haven’t been tested since Jan....
Her: I didn’t say it was recent
Me: well you can’t be “having sex with someone” if it’s not recent....
Her: well it what do you consider recent
Me: idk couple weekish
Her: well recent to me is like a month or so
Me: oh so when the last time y’all had sex then if it’s not that recent
Her: about a month but we aren’t HAVING sex I just know if I want some I can call him it’s a friends with benefits kinda deal
Me: oh so when the last time y’all had sex then if it’s not that recent
Her: about a month but we aren’t HAVING sex I just know if I want some I can call him it’s a friends with benefits kinda deal
Me: ok so when’s the last you got tested?
Her: feb
Me: 1,2,3....that’s 7 months you over due bro
Her: oh I’m not having sex so there’s no point in getting tested
Me: but that’s not how infections work...
Her: I’m not exposing myself so I’m fine
Me: ...and you said you’re a nurse?
Her: feb
Me: 1,2,3....that’s 7 months you over due bro
Her: oh I’m not having sex so there’s no point in getting tested
Me: but that’s not how infections work...
Her: I’m not exposing myself so I’m fine
Me: ...and you said you’re a nurse?
*video calls*
Her: “so were you born a man?”
Me: “.....huh?”
Her: “yeah it’s 2020 you can’t be sure”
Me: “you know that sounds transphobic right...”
Her: “naw it’s my preference”
Me: “you know your preference can be based in a phobia right...”
Her: “so were you born a man?”
Me: “.....huh?”
Her: “yeah it’s 2020 you can’t be sure”
Me: “you know that sounds transphobic right...”
Her: “naw it’s my preference”
Me: “you know your preference can be based in a phobia right...”
Me: are you crazy?
Her: no
Me: are you emotionally unstable?
Her: no
Me: are you racist, homophobic, transphobic, or anti sex worker?
Her: no but I am Christian
Me: ......what does that have to do with the convo?
Her: no
Me: are you emotionally unstable?
Her: no
Me: are you racist, homophobic, transphobic, or anti sex worker?
Her: no but I am Christian
Me: ......what does that have to do with the convo?
Maybe I just need to date a short woman with no butt

Her: you from out here
Me: yeah but I wanna move tbh I’m tired of the area, if it wasn’t for Rona I would’ve moved to Texas but it’s going crazy out there
Her: yeah I though about moving there or somewhere in the south like ATL
Me: black people always moving to ATL to solve probs
Me: yeah but I wanna move tbh I’m tired of the area, if it wasn’t for Rona I would’ve moved to Texas but it’s going crazy out there
Her: yeah I though about moving there or somewhere in the south like ATL
Me: black people always moving to ATL to solve probs
Her: but as a single young black woman atl isn’t the area for me
Me: wym, there’s plenty of single black people dowm there that’s a hot spot
Her: yeah but there’s more women than men there and the men be gay or bi, downlow or got AIDS
Me: ....true
Me: wym, there’s plenty of single black people dowm there that’s a hot spot
Her: yeah but there’s more women than men there and the men be gay or bi, downlow or got AIDS
Me: ....true
Me: there’s a lot to unpack here, 1. What’s the issue with him being bi? 2. How do you assume somebody got AIDS just cause they live there?
Her: wait are you bi?
Me: no but idk how that became a factor in determining if you could date someone
Her: wait are you bi?
Me: no but idk how that became a factor in determining if you could date someone
Her: it’s my preference, don’t get me wrong I have gay friends but if a man is gay he likes men than women in my experience plus as a woma I can’t compete with a man
Me: you realize your preferences can be based in a phobia right?
Me: you realize your preferences can be based in a phobia right?
Me: you sound like a white person saying “I can’t be racist, I have black friends” after saying something ridiculously racist....
When I get a “New Match” notification
Me: “do you apologize when you’re wrong?”
Her: “of course, but I hate when somebody else is wrong and they want me to apologize”
Me: “but if y’all both wrong you don’t apologize for your part in what happened?”
Her: “naw Iont like that”
Me:
Her: “of course, but I hate when somebody else is wrong and they want me to apologize”
Me: “but if y’all both wrong you don’t apologize for your part in what happened?”
Her: “naw Iont like that”
Me:
Me: “when’s the last time you got tested?”
Her: “last year but I’m good though”
Me: “uh that’s not how that works...”
Her:
Her: “last year but I’m good though”
Me: “uh that’s not how that works...”
Her:
Me manifesting my tall girlfriend with a nice ass & cute face, who’s smart, funny, has a career, goals, accountability, honesty and good communication skills with no kids
So shawty messaged me on one app then I see another profile on another so I messaged like: is somebody catfishing you? 
Her: naw I got bored at work and decided to make this too
Me: oh ok you have an IG?
Her: yeah but I haven’t been on social media in months
Me: (catfish)

Her: naw I got bored at work and decided to make this too
Me: oh ok you have an IG?
Her: yeah but I haven’t been on social media in months
Me: (catfish)
Her: I mean it’s private anyways so even if I gave it to you, you wouldn’t be able to see anything
Me: oh ok true I feel you
Her: but if you change your mind here it is ____
Me: *thinks* what am I supposed to do with this if it’s private and you not logging on bruh
Me: oh ok true I feel you
Her: but if you change your mind here it is ____
Me: *thinks* what am I supposed to do with this if it’s private and you not logging on bruh
If the convo went “oh I was just asking cause I don’t believe in it either just being funny” cool but what was the point here...
This woman is 32.
This woman is 32.
I knew from the jump something was off when I asked a very specific question and she ain’t answer
.
I’m bout to just read a book bruh I give up....

I’m bout to just read a book bruh I give up....
I knew it was time to delete all my dating apps when shawty had in her bio she was “weirdly attracted to trees”
Y’all prob too young to understand this