Thread by @hacks4pancakes, It would be great if everyone in infosec could get a little [...]

Lesley Carhart

hacks4pancakes

It would be great if everyone in infosec could get a little better at recognizing patterns of abuse and stalking, so 30 of us didn’t have to keep shouting about it ad infinitum. It’s even an interesting nerdy topic. Start recognizing the abusers. They often tell you who they are.

Here is somewhere to start. In one hour at dinner with D*rkS*m at DerbyCon, I saw three of these. You can see them online, and in person. Remember that abusers can be very charismatic. https://www.verywellmind.com/signs-someone-is-being-abused-66535

Do You Know the Warning Signs of Domestic Abuse?

Fear or shame can make people try to hide or deny domestic abuse. Still, there are usually several key warning signs when someone is being abused.

https://www.verywellmind.com/signs-someone-is-being-abused-66535

Here are some signs of stalking. https://www.asecurelife.com/signs-of-a-stalker/

We are tracking several people persistently stalking colleagues right now.

Signs of a Stalker: Are You Being Followed?

Studies show that 75% of victims know their stalker in some way, but a stalker isn’t always a stereotypical jilted lover or jealous spouse. In fact, many stalkers may have no romantic interest in the...

https://www.asecurelife.com/signs-of-a-stalker/

If you think you are a victim of stalking or abuse, or that you are unintentionally enabling it, please seek help. There are resources globally that can support you breaking free.

I forgot to mention- abuse (emotional and physical) and stalking can happen to ANYONE of any gender or age. Your hurt is valid and you should be able to feel safe.

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