I know we always say people don’t owe you anything or when you do something, let it be out of love & expect something in return BUT ubuhlobo buyakhiwa bethuna, you show up for people who show up for you, it’s not returning favour but kuphilisana, bubuntu, yinkathalo... https://twitter.com/chiamaka_chichi/status/1293810762201407488">https://twitter.com/chiamaka_...

There should be something inside of you that says “this person has done so much for me, I will do the same for them” without them even communicating that it’s what they expect from you. This should not even be a struggle qha naziqhelisa ubuxelegu...

Ina ethe, ububele uyabubuyisa

Ubuhlobo buyakhiwa.

You can’t always be the friend who receives & takes without giving nakanye! And it’s not even about money, there are a lot of ways to show a person umxabisile.

You’ve a foul heart if you don’t return impatho entle

It is 100% correct to have expectations on how you should be treated in return by people you’ve treated well! Yes, be open to things not happening as expected, that’s part of life but you’re not wrong if it upsets you that a person you were there for is not there for you.