living in the timeline where "sex = bad" and "sex = a thing a lot of people seem obsessed with" coexist is kind of tired

i wanna be in the one where it just isnt a big deal, doesnt matter if you do it or not, & obsessions arent formed all around it -- but that is far too ideal

im not looking to get any "we arent judging you!" in the replies, thats not the point here

horny people love an "empowered woman" b/c they get to be horny over her

for my own reasons, i feel most "empowered" when my sexuality has 0 factor in my chance of success @ a given thing

i used to find it fun to play w/ that sexuality factor, but seeing the worst sides of it (from unhealthy lvls of fixation, to radical opposing backlash) has done a swell job of turning me off of it -- wishing i could escape having to see it everywhere, but simply being unable to